Felicity and I have been having a discussion recently. It goes something like this:
Felicity was explaining why she did something that she wasn't supposed to do.
Felicity: "I did ___ and Danarra helped, but You weren't watching us"
Mommy: "Well, it is mommy's job to teach you what the rules are and your job to follow them whether Mommy is watching or not. Mommy can not watch you all the time."
I'm not sure if it really sunk in or not, but I guess we shall see. And I think we will have to have the discussion a few more times to be sure it is understood.